It would help you deal with these troubling emotions, as well as acknowledge the very real hurt you yourself experienced quite recently. I think therapy would be extremely useful to you at this juncture. This is not an impulse that we should encourage in ourselves. It is so easy to take delight in anger, to want to see someone suffer not just in the same amount he or she brought suffering to us, but forever and in a way that does not abate when we see his or her suffering come to pass. There is a part of me that wants to punish anyone I perceive to have wronged me without a thought for proportion. This is part of why I myself am often anxious about experiencing anger-there is a part of me that does not simply want to see justice done or boundaries honored.
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